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	<description>Living a double life- one in New York, one in Puerto Rico. My only continuity: Introspection. This blog, the result.</description>
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		<title>Deciding to reclaim your life</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 29 Aug 2011 04:18:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[As summer comes to an end and events such as Hurricane Irene and random earthquakes mark moments that will forever be distinguished memories, I am left feeling a little untethered. I start the dialogue that summer has escaped me, that I&#8217;ve done nothing, but then my memory reminds me . . . I live a [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=attainingme.wordpress.com&amp;blog=4318071&amp;post=620&amp;subd=attainingme&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Childlike dates make magic</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 10 May 2011 21:55:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Magnetic. So often I am turned to for dating advice and thought I&#8217;d share my past weekend here. We went to Soho to watch the Derby. I arrived late as my love affair with my yoga class on Saturdays is a high, an addiction, I am unwilling to sacrifice. So, when I was dating Mr. [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=attainingme.wordpress.com&amp;blog=4318071&amp;post=615&amp;subd=attainingme&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>The jungle that is the universe</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 04 Apr 2011 15:18:51 +0000</pubDate>
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				<category><![CDATA[Dreaming - Drawing my future]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Introspective]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Travel beyond my two homes- lucky me]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Work & Career]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[ambition]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[destiny]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[gift]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Flying, again. These days a much less frequent occasion. Nonetheless, I return to a place long needed, but not long forgotten. My mind. It speaks . . . in a way it is incapable of doing so day to day. I am different here. I wonder if it is the expanse that lays below, the [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=attainingme.wordpress.com&amp;blog=4318071&amp;post=611&amp;subd=attainingme&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>We&#8217;ve run our course</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 24 Mar 2011 03:08:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<category><![CDATA[I love you]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Letting go of something I never grabbed onto. He was handsome, his lust found me, engulfed me. The moments together were light. Happy. And I, physically awakened. I kept seeking. Where was he. So simple. An opposing mirror to my complexity. The best me was suffocating. But my inner dialogues kept pressing. Don&#8217;t throw someone [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=attainingme.wordpress.com&amp;blog=4318071&amp;post=609&amp;subd=attainingme&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>My last words.</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 01 Feb 2011 01:05:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<category><![CDATA[love]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[passion]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Work & Career]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[writing]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[I miss writing. I miss this blog. And, you. I find myself somewhat breathless as I return to these old streams, layers of emotions and memories that are no longer the make up of my day. This blog, unintentionally, documents the life I lived in Puerto Rico. When I first started writing, I longed for [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=attainingme.wordpress.com&amp;blog=4318071&amp;post=601&amp;subd=attainingme&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>The unavailable female</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Jun 2010 14:19:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[The episodic heart. The running dialogues in my mind, their words . . .  they change. They vary from pain to understanding to my own admittance of fault. That evening A stated, &#8220;love and drama go hand in hand.&#8221; I know the guest was a female. My intuition says she arrived, and most likely arrives [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=attainingme.wordpress.com&amp;blog=4318071&amp;post=597&amp;subd=attainingme&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>My Tiger Woods</title>
		<link>http://attainingme.wordpress.com/2010/06/09/my-tiger-woods/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 09 Jun 2010 18:54:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[The story. 10pm 6/1/10 The buzzer rings unexpectedly. We had just arrived home. The doorman&#8217;s voice through the intercom echoes, &#8220;You have a guest here.&#8221; A replied hurriedly, &#8220;I&#8217;ll come down.&#8221; As I unbuttoned my dress, laying the night to bed, I questioned who had arrived. I thought a dealer as A does have an [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=attainingme.wordpress.com&amp;blog=4318071&amp;post=594&amp;subd=attainingme&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Intimacy Issues, A new chapter</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 04 Jun 2010 18:33:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I haven’t written much and so here is the backgound to my next post. My life now a vast departure from the days of sand between my toes and wind flying through my hair as I rode my horse through untouched Puerto Rico. My surroundings now are touched, built up, the concrete schoolyard of New [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=attainingme.wordpress.com&amp;blog=4318071&amp;post=591&amp;subd=attainingme&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Sexless Relationship</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 29 Apr 2010 13:20:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Remember A? Teterboro Awaits and  the one with whom I awaited vulnerability, emotional intimacy, continuity. My steps and breaths now in New York find themselves alongside his. My nights, more often than not, are next to him in his lush bed. His arms wrapped around me, with my dog, we are now a family. . [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=attainingme.wordpress.com&amp;blog=4318071&amp;post=589&amp;subd=attainingme&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>A death, a city life</title>
		<link>http://attainingme.wordpress.com/2010/04/03/a-death-a-city-life/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 03 Apr 2010 13:59:32 +0000</pubDate>
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				<category><![CDATA[Bicoastal Living- (however, not bicoastal)]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[The air is not as thick. The noises more frenetic. My eyes are fixed on red bricks and white paned windows sprouting out of Bleecker Street. The cars and people passing are out of eyes view and I think of my life, this box that I now inhabit once again versus the expanse I roamed. [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=attainingme.wordpress.com&amp;blog=4318071&amp;post=587&amp;subd=attainingme&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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